Sunday, March 24, 2013

Another First

                                                           Mr. D and I have experienced a lot of firsts in our relationship, but this last year we have had a lot more new experiences and firsts . This weekend we attended our first munch and visited a dungeon and play party.
                                                      We had dinner at a restaraunt in a community about an hour from where we live and met a number of very nice people. Most of the people were close to our age or a little older which surprised me a little, I had visions of a bunch of 20 somethings. There's nothing wrong with people in their twenties, but we definitely felt more comfortable and less self conscious being in a group of strangers that included people closer to our age. The woman I sat next to was very helpful. She knows people in the community in our city and was able to give me contact information so we could attend a munch right at home. We talked quite a bit and she explained to me that she is an owned and collared slave who has been with her Master for five years. She is also a nurse and nurses are very trustworthy- take my word for it.   She put me very much at ease as did everyone we got a chance to talk to.
                                                     After dinner we headed over to the "dungeon" and stayed for the party. I got to witness electrical play and the participants were very gracious about answering my questions and I even got to experience a little jolt ( just touching hands briefly- I wasn't brave enough to jump in and play.) There were a few people doing fire play and one of them also incorporating cupping. Mr. D has always had a fascination with fire and was definitely interested in learning more about the technique. I found him and  one of the gentleman   in deep conversation about this very subject and he suggested we attend an event where someone he considers to be highly skilled will be demonstrating.
                                                          Mr. D was also very interested in seeing the St. Andrews cross up close. He has a number of large 1x6's that he's been itching to use in a project. I have no idea where we'll keep a St. Andrews cross, but I suppose if he decides to make one he'll find a place.
                                                              All in all it was a very interesting evening, definitely different than our usual night out. It was nice to meet other people who are interested and  experienced in some of the things that interest us and I hope to see and have a chance to talk with them again.                      

14 comments:

  1. Mrs. D,

    I am glad that you attended a munch and had the opportunity to meet kinksters. It is terrific to be with other kinky people who freely talk about their life styles.

    Visiting a dungeon is both scary and exciting. I am happy that you were able to see one at a private play party.

    Thank you for sharing.

    Hug,
    joey

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    1. I'm looking forward to attending another munch and excited that we may be able to go to one in town.

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  2. Glad it worked out so well, especially since it was your very first time.

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    1. I was pleasantly surprised and looking forward to going back.

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  3. It'll be interesting to see what the fire demonstration event will bring ;)

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    1. I hope we get to attend, I'd really like to see another fire demonstration and if I'm brave enough try it myself.

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  4. glad it worked out for you. We had plans to go to one in April but I dont think its going to happen right now- so Im a little jealous.

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    1. This was kind of last minute. We stumbled across the announcement for the munch and we were free so.... it was low key and casual which helped put us at ease. I hope you get to go, if not in April then soon.

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  5. Sounds like a very successful weekend, and you had fun thats the main thing, its been a while since we ventured out for public events, and part of me misses it.

    I love electrical play, have not tried cupping but it does intrigue me!

    x

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    1. It was fun and I never thought I would be interested in fire or electrical play, but now I really want to try them out.

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  6. We have never been to a munch but it is something that sparks an interest so its nice to hear you had such a great time. It makes one a little less leery of it.

    Electrical play certainly sounds like it could be a lot of fun, it's definitely on our to do list.

    Hopefully you will get a chance to see some of those people again. It would be nice to be a little more open about our dynamic with others.

    Sounds exciting, very happy for you.

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    1. It was definitely interesting and dinner beforehand gave us a chance to meet and talk with people, which put us more at ease.

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